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ÖNCELÝKLÝ KAYGILARIMIZ

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ÖNCELÝKLÝ KAYGILARIMIZ

 

Hayatýmýza kaygýlarýmýz yön verir.

Hangi konuda endiþeli isek dikkat ve yoðunluðumuz oradadýr.

Ýnsanýn caný yarasýnýn olduðu yerdedir ya.

Bu sebeple mutluluk anayasasý ilk dört maddesi kaygý durumumuzu yönetmeli.

Kaygýda birinci önceliðimiz aþkýn varlýðýmýz Rabbimizin talepleri,

Ýkinci önceliðimiz içkin varlýðýmýz eþinizin istekleri,

Üçüncü önceliðimiz taþkýn varlýklarýmýz çocuklarýmýzýn ihtiyaçlarý,

Dördüncü önceliðimiz de taþtýðýmýz varlýklar anne/babamýzýn beklentileri olmalý.

Çaðýmýzda modernizmin üzerinde yükseldiði vahþi kapitalizmin temel vurgusu bireysellik olduðu için kaygýlar sadece insanýn kendisine odaklandý.

Hümanizm insaný tanrýdan baðýmsýz kendi ayaklarý üzerinde durabileceðine inandýrmaya çalýþýyor yüzyýllardýr.

Bu inanç çerçevesinde tanrýdan, eþten, çocuklardan, aileden, anne/babadan kýsaca her þeyden baðýmsýz konformist bir hayat dayatýlýyor.

Egoizm ve konformizm çaðýn vebasý olarak herkesi az/çok etkiliyor.

Batýda yükselen dünya sevgisi ve ölüm korkusu Ýslam dünyasýný da kasýp kavuruyor.

Eskiden mezarlýklarýmýzý cami bahçelerine yapar, günde beþ vakit ölümün samimi nasihatlarýyla kaygýlarýmýzý dizayn ederdik.

Þimdilerde batýnýn mezarlýklarý yüksek duvarlar sakladýðý gibi bizim coðrafyada da ölüm hayatýn dýþýna atýlmaya çalýþýlmaya baþladý.

Oysa dünyanýn pay, ahiretin payda olduðu hesap kitapta, payda yani ahiret hesaba katýlmadýðý için iþin içinden çýkamaz hale geldik.

Ýki dünya saadetinin yollarýný göstermek için gönderilen Allah elçisi kaygýda önceliklerimiz konusunda þu altýn öneride bulunuyor:

"Kim ahiret günü için tek bir kaygýyý dert edinirse, derdini birleþtirirse Allah onu bütün kaygýlarýndan korur, onun dertlerini üstlenir.

Kim de dünya þartlarýna göre dertleri bölünmüþse, sadece dünyayý dert edinmiþse Allah hangi vadide helak olacaðýna bakmaz/aldýrýþ etmez…" (Hadis-i Þerif)

Our Priority Concerns

Our anxieties direct our lives.

Whatever we are worried about, our attention and concentration is there.

A person's life is where his wound is.

For this reason, the first four articles of the constitution of happiness should manage our state of anxiety.

Our first priority in concern is our transcendent existence, the demands of our Lord,

Our second priority is our inherent presence, your spouse's wishes,

Our third priority is our abundant assets, the needs of our children,

Our fourth priority should be the expectations of our parents, the assets we carry.

Since the main emphasis of the wild capitalism on which modernism is based in our age is individuality, concerns are focused only on the human being.

For centuries, humanism has been trying to convince humans that they can stand on their own feet, independent of God.

Within the framework of this belief, a conformist life is imposed, independent of God, spouse, children, family, mother/father, in short, everything.

Egoism and conformism, as the plague of the age, affect everyone to a greater or lesser extent.

The rising love of the world and the fear of death in the West are also wreaking havoc on the Islamic world.

In the past, we used to build our cemeteries in mosque gardens and design our worries with the sincere advice of death five times a day.

Nowadays, just as high walls hide the cemeteries of the West, efforts have begun to exclude death from life in our geography.

However, in the accounting book where the world is the numerator and the hereafter is the denominator, we have become unable to get out of the situation because the denominator, the afterlife, is not taken into account.

The Messenger of Allah, who was sent to show the ways of happiness in two worlds, makes the following golden suggestion regarding our priorities in anxiety:

"Whoever worries about a single worry for the afterlife and combines his worries, Allah will protect him from all his worries and take over his troubles.

"Whoever's troubles are divided according to worldly conditions, and who only worries about the world, Allah does not care/does not care in which valley he will perish..." (Hadith Sharif)