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“VER KORKUYU” DEÐÝL; “VER COÞKUYU”

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“VER KORKUYU” DEÐÝL; “VER COÞKUYU”

Ýstiklal Marþý’mýz “Korkma” kelimesi ile baþlar.

“Korkma” kelimesinin referansý Kur’an ayetidir. (Tevbe, 9/40)

Ayette, hakkýnda ölüm kararý vermiþ müþriklerin yakýn takibindeki Allah Resulü (s.a.v) ve en yakýn arkadaþý Ebu Bekir (r.a.) hikâye edilmektedir.

Allah Resulü (s.a.v.) müþriklerin sýðýndýklarý maðaranýn kapýsýna kadar gelmeleri üzerine þüphe ve tereddütten uzak, tam bir teslimiyetle; “Muhammed, arkadaþýna: “Üzülme, Allah bizimle beraberdir” demiþti.

Ýþte Ýstiklal Marþý o ayetten atýfla inananlara “Korkma” diye baþlar.

Anne karnýndan 7 yaþýna kadar çocuklarýmýza vereceðimiz eðitimde dikkat edeceðimiz en önemli hakikat onlara “korkuyu deðil coþkuyu vermek” olmalý.

“Cesur ol, korkma, bin kere düþsende kalk evladým yürüyebilirsin, ilerleyebilirsin, yapabilirsin, becerebilirsin, baþarabilirsin” sözleri çocuklarýmýza sarf edeceðimiz en önde gelen kelimeler kabul edilmeli.

Ýnsan baþarýsýnda saç ayaðýný teþkil eden üç þey:

Özgüven + Zihni Arka Plan (Bilgi Birikimi/akademik baþarý) + Sosyal Çevre (arkadaþlar)

Bu üç olmazsa olmaz deðerler birleþik kaplar gibi birbirini destekler ya da zayýflatýr.

Üçünün oluþumunda da bebeklikten itibaren “korkuyu deðil de coþkuyu vermek” hayati deðerde.

“Rezil olunmadan vezir olunmaz” dostlar.

Çocuklarý rahat býrakýn, rezil olma ihtimallerini düþünerek aþýrý koruyucu davranarak onlarýn hayat yolculuðunda korkutmayýn.

Salýn zincirlerini ve Allah’ýn onlara sizden ayrý ve baðýmsýz olarak verdiði özgünlüðü âleme göstermelerine müsaade edin.

Unutmayýn!

En anne/baba, en iyi öðretmen…

Vereceðini en seri bir þekilde veren, köprü olan ve…

Kendisini en kýsa sürede geçersiz hale getirebilendir.

“Ver Korkuyu” Deðil; “Ver Coþkuyu”

Our National Anthem begins with the word "Don't be afraid".

The reference to the word “do not be afraid” is a verse from the Quran. (At-Tawbah, 9/40)

The verse tells the story of the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) and his closest friend Abu Bakr (r.a.), who were closely followed by the polytheists who decided to kill him.

When the polytheists came to the door of the cave where they took shelter, the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said with complete submission, without doubt or hesitation; “Muhammad said to his friend: “Don't worry, Allah is with us.”

The National Anthem begins by saying "Do not be afraid" to the believers, referring to that verse.

The most important truth we should pay attention to in the education we give to our children from the womb to the age of 7 should be "to give them enthusiasm, not fear".

The words "Be brave, don't be afraid, even if you fall a thousand times, get up my child, you can walk, you can move forward, you can do it, you can do it, you can succeed" should be accepted as the leading words we say to our children.

Three things constitute the pillars of human success:

Self-Confidence + Mental Background (Knowledge/academic success) + Social Environment (friends)

These three essential values ​​support or weaken each other like unified vessels.

In the formation of all three, it is vital to "instill enthusiasm rather than fear" from infancy onwards.

“You cannot become a vizier without being disgraced,” friends.

Leave the children alone, do not scare them in their life journey by being overly protective, thinking about the possibility of them being embarrassed.

Let them reveal to the world the chains of the raft and the uniqueness that God has given them separately and independently of you.

Don't forget!

The best mother/father, the best teacher...

The one who gives what he has to give in the quickest way, the one who is a bridge and…

It is the one that can make itself invalid in the shortest time.