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-YENÝ- ACI MI, TATLI MI?

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ACI MI, TATLI MI?

Kur’an Tin suresinde “Ýncir ve Zeytin” örneðinde sýralamada önce tatlý diyor.

Çünkü sistem kolaydan zora çalýþýr.

Ya da basitten daha önemliye…

Yemekte buna dikkat ederim.

Önce tatlý, sonra çorba.

Meyve varsa da; önce meyve sonra çorba ve diðerleri…

Asýl konumuz bu deðil tabi ki…

Hayatta acý mý daha eðitici, yoksa tatlý mý?

Ýkisinin eðitimde etkisi konusunda tatlý hafif baþlangýç acý ana yemektir.

“Kedi kabahati üzerinde terbiye edilir.”

Demire yüksek ateþle ve çekiç darbeleriyle þekil verilir.

Acýnýn etkili eðiticiliði iki þekilde sonuçlanýr:

Acý ya daha çok azdýrýr.

Ya da ýslah eder.

Acýnýn azdýran örneði lanetlenmiþ kavim Ýsrail Oðullarý’dýr.

Acýnýn ýslah eden örneði sahabe nesli ve asr-ý saadettir.

Kur’an- Kerim acýnýn, musibetin ve felaketin bu eðitici tarafýna sýklýkla baþvurur.

Tatlýyý hafif baþlangýç olarak hýzla geçer, acýnýn, ana yemeðin üzerinde uzun uzun durur.

Bedir’i hýzlý geçer; ama Uhud’u ayrýntýlý anlatýr.

Kýzýldeniz’i hýzlý geçer ama Tufan’da yavaþlar.

“Abese ve tevella”der, “emaneti ehline döndürün” emreder, “Ýfk olayý” üzerinde ciltler dolusu anlatýlabilecek uyarýlar yapar.

Aslýnda bireysel ve toplumsal olarak yaþadýðýmýz acý ve travmalar dünyamýzýn sýký sýk yaþadýðý depremler gibidir.

Depremler hazýrlýklý ve saðlam binalar yapýldýðýnda; büyük fýrsatlarla gelir.

Madenlerin kapaðýný ve kilidini açar, misafirdir ve hediyesi gelmez.

Yeni yeni taze taze ikramlar istifademiz için yukarýya doðru taþýnýr.

Musibet ve travmalar da öyledir.

Psikolojik, sosyolojik ve ekonomik olarak gelecek travmalara hazýr kiþi ve kurumlar; yaþanan “kýrýlma noktasý”ndan güçlenerek çýkarlar.

Sizin tercihiniz hangisi:

Acý mý, tatlý mý?

Bitter or Sweet?

In the Quranic sura "Figs and Olives," in the example of "Sweet" in the At-Tin sura, the order is sweet.

Because the system works from easy to difficult.

Or from simple to more important...

I pay attention to this in my meals.

First the sweet, then the soup.

If there's fruit, first the fruit, then the soup, and so on...

Of course, that's not our main topic...

Is bitter or sweet more educational in life?

Regarding the educational impact of both, sweet is the mildest beginning, bitter the main course.

"A cat is trained on its faults."

Iron is shaped with high heat and hammer blows.

The effective educational effect of bitterness results in two ways:

Bitterness either incites more arousal.

Or it reforms.

The exacerbating example of pain is the cursed people, the Children of Israel.

The corrective example of pain is the generation of the Companions and the Age of Bliss.

The Holy Quran frequently invokes this educational aspect of pain, calamity, and disaster.

It swiftly passes through the sweet as a light appetizer and dwells at length on the bitter, the main course.

It passes through Badr quickly, but describes Uhud in detail.

It passes through the Red Sea quickly, but slows down during the Flood.

It says, "Abese ve Tewalla," commands, "Return the trust to its rightful owner," and issues warnings about the "Ifk incident" that could fill volumes.

In fact, the pain and trauma we experience individually and collectively are like the earthquakes our world frequently experiences.

Earthquakes come with great opportunities when prepared and sturdy buildings are built.

It opens the lids and locks of mines, is a guest, and its gift does not arrive.

Fresh, fresh offerings are carried upward for our benefit.

So are calamities and traumas.

Individuals and institutions that are psychologically, sociologically, and economically prepared for future traumas emerge stronger from the "breaking point."

Which is your preference:

Bitter or sweet?